I had an abortion 1 week ago...

"I had an abortion 1 week ago and have struggled to come to terms with it everyday since. I got pregnant 2 months into a new relationship. I had tried for years to get pregnant with my previous partner but never did. I had started to think something was wrong with me. I was thrilled but nervous to tell my new partner. At first he didn't want it because it was all too soon but after a few discussions we decided that we was going to go ahead with it. However, a few days before I booked the abortion he came to me and said he definitely didn't want it and he wanted us to spend some quality time together and do stuff that people do in new relationships like, holidays, nights out, days out etc. Obviously he added that he loved me and was so glad we was together and that we could try for another baby in 6 months to a year. I was very hormonal, feeling very down and the sickness was awful and because I loved him dearly I had an abortion even though my head and heart was saying.... don't do it! The day after the abortion he left me, cut off his phone, deleted his facebook and went back to his ex girlfriend! I didn't even get an explanation. I am devastated and think about the loss of my baby every second of every day, and also the betrayal by him. My advice is, don't listen to anyone when it comes to aborting your baby. If you want to keep it then keep it. For everyone else, they are not the ones that will have to live with it. Now I’ve got to move on with my life.....its not going to be easy though." —Anonymous


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